You sorry for your lenghtly feedback? You must be kidding me! 😵😵😵
Never ever be sorry for adding so much value to the world! Those who would get annoyed of your long contributions are simply not ready. They’re not to be blamed.
But, most importantly, it should never trigger your apologies as you have absolutely nothing to be sorry for!
I am aware it is an unconscious pattern and residual of the harsh conditioning, gaslighting and blame-shifting small games.
And those kind of patterns like the rescuer one on which I am still working (I found 3 layers I’ll make sure to detail another time) are way more challenging than destroying the limiting beliefs for a simple reason:
Unlike those beliefs that are “bad", saying a genuine sorry or breaking one’s heart to save a person from their darkness is such a noble thing! 💎
Interestingly, it is harmful for our soul when it is a lost cause! So when it comes to saying sorry, I ALWAYS stop the inherently good person and ask them this trivial question: did you know this detail might bother me before? They stop for a moment and, still confused, their answer comes hesitant “No…🙄”, to which I respond “Then you have absolutely nothing to be sorry for! Now that you know, you can be held accountable in the future!”. It’s always a pleasure to observe the “aha-moment" with a peaceful smile! 💙
Now, to back up your words, I am sharing this extract from a published piece:
“Let’s be honest for a second, shall we? Most parents decide to have kids being motivated by a selfish drive. The most benign one is feeling the sensation of holding their infant, which is possible thanks to the Oxytocin chemical released by the brain. Unfortunately, because of their lack of awareness, among other factors, most adults have children while they are still diving into life with their heavy conditioning psychological/mental baggage. For the troubled narcissists, it’s much worse! They have kids for two main reason: 1. The narrative of the perfect life and the possibility to present them to the world as their trophees (extension of them), and 2. A narcissistic supply source. Disgusting, indeed.
You can call it a curse that deepens every day the world’s imbalance, no matter how ugly this reality might sound. Everything in the distorted human behavior is tied to the quality of the subconscious program. It is the reason why I care a lot about educating around the topic.”
My feedback is even longer than yours, and guess what? I’m not sorry! 😁🙃😂🤣
