Yes when we operate from our conscious mind, which is 3 to 5% of our days according to experts!
That leaves 95 to 97% to the subconscious mind which is the by-product of what we were told and something we never wrote in the first place!
That is we might have though many choices were ours while we were unconsciously operating from our distorted program, I suppose!
At some point, fortunately, we may be pushed by life to realize the trap, wake up, and rewire our program to break free!