Which all fearful-avoidants with a savior pattern are so familiar with! If I love the attachment theory, it's for a very good reason:

It is based on the list of common subconscious patterns and makes us realize how powerful a similar conditioning is in creating similar trauma responses and coping mechanisms!

It makes us see we have never been alone in our struggles! Most importantly, it makes those who committed to the journey and found their voice openly speak about what they went through; thus, giving hope and even triggering some awakening for the still voiceless or in denial ones! What a fabulous potential outcome!