What a brilliant piece, dear Mehmet! I love your perspective! It's particulalry interesting and curious because I am considering what you are describing as "emotional intelligence", which I tried to go through in detail here, should it feel worthwhile: https://medium.com/youmeus/did-you-ever-wonder-what-this-emotional-intelligence-skill-was-about-a4085d5ba1b1

Emotional maturity, to me, is the balance between 1. being empathetic enough to understand and genuinely connect and 2. brave enough to confront.