This is the exact opposite of what I meant, my treasured Bob! Guess that I wasn’t clear enough!

For the physical bank account, we put the money to rise our reserve (even when it’s through a third party).

For the emotional bank account, it’s the other party’s role to make the deposits in our emotional bank account so that our trust reserve when it comes to this person in particular can be elevated over time!

The next piece in which I am answering a similar feedback to yours might, hopefully, made my thoughts crystal clear! If not, I can always give it another shot! 😁🙃🤪