That's probably the most common pattern between all the human beings on the planet! That's specifically why I care so much about parenting and the responsibility of our caregivers who were anything but ready for the privilege of raising innocent kids who didn't ask for being here while they were still carrying their heavy psychological baggage: limiting beliefs, emotional scars, unprocessed feelings ans flashbacks.
As parents, we need to pay attention to the story we’re telling our kids. Instead of discriminating against their intrinsic worth and pushing them to compete with others, break their hearts to accomplish what would make them deserve your love, we have to be a responsible parent by keeping them connected to their original great being.
That being who was granted by the pure love divinity some wonderful common gifts:
* The Power of Choice,
* The Principles Center — namely respect, fairness, integrity & honesty, human dignity, abundance mentality, service, quality or excellence, potential, etc.
"Principles are self-evident and can easily be validated by any individual. It is almost as if these principles or natural laws are part of the human condition, part of the human consciousness, part of the human conscience. They seem to exist in all human beings, regardless of social conditioning and loyalty to them, even though they might be submerged or numbed by conditions or disloyalty." ~ Stephen Covey
* The four forms of intelligence / their manifestation: IQ (Mind)/ Vision, PQ (Body) / Self-discipline, EQ (Heart) / Passion & Emotional Maturity, and SQ (Spirit) / Principled Legacy.