That's accurate until we clean the conditioning dust and many limiting beliefs that are ingrained in our subconscious making our speech disproportionate and unjust in the first place. When our subconscious becomes our best friend, we can be angry while self-aware and highly emotionally intelligent. In other words, we would be able to express our anger while still being decent and without offending others, it seems to me! That's how powerful the psychological work can be when it's done seriously!