That definitely makes two of us! I used to be a codependent for the majority of my life! I suffered from an Imposter Syndrome. I was a pleaser and an achiever (promoted throughout my whole educational cursus and a high performer in my corpodate career). I was a miserable mess falling all the time for the wrong people and breaking my heart over and over again. In September 2018, after being harshly but subtly abused by a malignant narcissist, I was about to end my life. I was saved at the last minute by the grace of my pure love divinity through an out-of-body experience. It was as if the original servant leader in me dissociated to show me all the lies of my unfriendly subconscious program I never wrote in the first place. Most importantly that this Universe was anything but revolving around my small self, and that I was on this planet in this physical existence for a mission much broader than my self. It was my fuel that made me capable of paying the price and staying with the huge pain of drastically transforming my being later on: the most rewarding investment of my whole life! 💙