Such a mind-blowing exploration, my friend! I felt immersed in your magical world despite the heartaching for the traumas... But, you know what?
I am a firm believer our traumas and bruises are all that we needed to be pushed to reconnect again with our higher self! The whole world is conditioned to become a filter, a false persona.
Some kids have been "fortunate enough" to grow in a relatively healthy family system, would miraculously nevet meet a perpetrator during their current physical existence. Still, they'd live in the shadow of who they truly are, it seems to me. Not sure this could be described as a blissful living...
Unless a child is born in an environment where both parents did their inner-work to self-actualize and intentionally give birth to future servant leaders who would give back to the world, I think folks who were traumatized the most (but whose free will chose light during childhood instead of inflating their self-esteem and becoming self-absorbed) would become the strongest, most resilient and impactful humans with the highest moral authority whenever their awaken their spirit and set their soul free!