Obviously it can mean so, my friend, when it comes to dangerous pathologies like NPD and co.! If you’re not their ally following their agenda religiously and providing them with narcissistic supply, then you’re the enemy! An effective advice here is not only to work on reprogramming and befriending our subconscious, but also getting a serious and detailed psychological education: the only real way to disable their manipulation and abuse tactics. That the perpetrator knows that you know and that you firmly show your boundaries may drastically help!