My sweetest and magical soul-friend, I hear and feel you beyond words! I'm sorry for the bullying and lack of validation you had to go through. I can empathize and sympathize! I also share people's doubt about how serious my decision not to have biological kids is! Still, I love being a fur kids Momma and will adopt human kids at some point. My decision not to have my own is rooted in the nonsense of adding more children to this world while millions are already of an urgent need to be given a second chance!