There is nothing enlightened about shrinking so that other people won’t feel insecure around you. We are all meant to shine, as children do.

Marianne Williamson

I couldn’t agree any more with both of you, my friend! Others' behavior is never personal and merely reflects their inner turmoil! It’s theirs and we should never take it personally even in extreme case scenarios when perpetrators intentionally try their best to hurt us and feed on our suffering. Undoubtedly, reaching that level of detachment while learning how to best disable abusers at the same time takes tons of subconscious program rewiring and psychological education! Those humble enough and who kept their heart open will get inspired by others light. They are the ones who matter to me 💙