It seems to me that when two emotionally healthy individuals are dating, they don't need to be the number one priority! They enjoy your company, but honor their me-time as well, and they know that you are looking for a similar configuration!

No need for tips frankly; it's simply how they show up in life: living it wholeheartedly! If I can give one advice, it would be to work on one's emotional health (a natural result of re-writing the subconscious program) and dating oneself before considering dating another individual!