It may be accurate for a considerable part of individuals. Still, it seems to me it is not the case when it comes to unaware empaths (the fearful-avoidant folks mostly). Despite my cruel inner-bully, I used to be a pleaser, had an optimistic outlook and didn’t miss any opportunity for a good laughter! That’s what made me the perfect victim for narcissists and most recently the maligant one, in all likelihood!