Myriam Ben Salem🦋
1 min readOct 2, 2020

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I will never give myself the permission to blame any narcissistic abuse victim gosh! All what I can do is to wish they’ll set themselves free from their limiting beliefs and get knowledgeable!

Let’s suppose I know a person is a narcissist (because I reconnected with my purest gut so that I can feel the real nature of the person with no filter. Also thanks to habing developed my critical thinking skills to the highest levels making it possible to spot inconsistencies from the body language even when watching them from distance and being unable to feel their energy).

Imagine that I don’t have the knowledge that narcissists are aware of their abuse and manipulation, that they’re unlikely to seek for help for three main reasons:

1. Their grandiosity pattern making them never admit there’s something wrong with them at all.
2. Having constant access to their narcissistic supply, which they get in general from their partner and kids-- close friends if they don’t have any.
3. Even without the supply, the "spiritual" ones use the positive affirmations (which I explored in one of my last articles).

Do you think that I could give up on helping this narcissist until the last breath? I wouldn’t and I would lose my time, energy and life for a perpetrator who will continue manipulating and exploiting me.

And regarding encouraging you, come on my friend! I’m the honored one by having access to your brilliant mind and kind soul! 💙🤗

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Myriam Ben Salem🦋
Myriam Ben Salem🦋

Written by Myriam Ben Salem🦋

A fur Momma, animal lover & advocate, lifelong learner, storyteller, edutainer, and published author. I write personal stories and essays.

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