I just love how a friendly subconscious program works! No matter the circumstances, our program responds with no filter when the limiting beliefs are destroyed.
When the principles are again our center, the gap between the stimulus and our answer is enlargened and the emotion is translated into the right feeling. Hence, the most adequate action is taken:
1. Making use of our EI to speak the turth firmly in case of boundaries' violation for instance while allowing people to leave the table with all their dignity at the same time when we're dealing with decent individuals.
2. Disabling the person with whom we're intereacting when we are dealing with an abuser through not talking emotions with them (the supply they're desperately looking for to nurture their fragile ego).
That's simply priceless!