Myriam Ben Salem🦋
1 min readFeb 27, 2021

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How adorable of you to stop by, my cherished Melanie! It feels so good to see your name 3 times today! I'm beyond grateful for your generosity! 🤗

And that's so accurate for the time required to build trust! When it comes to losing it, that's where I have a problem. Here is why: If trust has been really built; in other words, if we have been making continuous deposits in the other person's emotional bank account, the trust reserve should be high enough to make a few withdrawals! That is it will be extremely hard to break the trust!

The trickiest part in my story that broke my heart was that I was consistently making the deposits and believing that my friend was noticing... That's why my inner-child was hurt that much!

I wrote something about trustworthiness and trust some time ago given that I believe it's the foundation of all healthy relationships, should you be interested:

https://medium.com/know-thyself-heal-thyself/the-difference-between-trustworthiness-and-trust-is-merit-2bc90bc9b482

Last but not least: sending love back in your direction!!!

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Myriam Ben Salem🦋
Myriam Ben Salem🦋

Written by Myriam Ben Salem🦋

A fur Momma, animal lover & advocate, lifelong learner, storyteller, edutainer, and published author. I write personal stories and essays.

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