How adorable of you, my friend!!! And thanks for your compassion!!! So many folks have been psychologically abused by their caregivers (one of them in general and the other one is a codependent) in a very subtle way without even getting it...
I didn’t until I decided to confirm my doubts through a training and connected the dots! That’s how dangerous some types of NPD are! They are so “covert"… I’ve always felt something was wrong, especially after the transformation and having connected with my purest gut (I can feel the nature of the energy), but my inner child and the savior pattern (I wrote this piece about finally destroying it: “Discovered: Why I Was Suffering From My Savior Pattern” de Myriam Ben Salem https://link.medium.com/y2e4RuqvQcb) were stobborn and didn’t wanna accept the ugly truth!
I’m glad I made this discovery after the transformation at least. Otherwise, I wouldn’t have been able to forgive and my grief would have taken the eternity… and that’s why I started writing about the critical issue with the hope of saving someone and getting people to become aware of it!