Does this acronym describe your father (at least partially)? C.R.A.V.E.D
C: conflict. Fighting is the native language
R: rigid.Not adaptable to a variety of situations.
A: antagonistic. Very difficult to get along. Lying, manipulation, deceipt might be part of the equalition.
V: vulnerable, victim, vindictive.
E: entitled. Believing being special; thus, the rules don't apply to them. They will rage if not granted favors.
D: disregulated. Reactive. Unable to control their emotions at times. Very quick to anger or whatever negative emotion.