Correct, my friend, until you can witness undeniable red flags confirming they intrinsically are. I am a firm believer that psychological education is power.
Interestingly, ignorance is not merely lack of power, it seems to me. It can also trigger so much harm when we unintentionally enable manipulators and abusers like people with Narcissistic Personality Disorder and other antagonistic and maladaptive personalities.
I listened to this exquisite video yesterday and would love to share it, should it feel worthwhile:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=T3yXMbvfmWg&list=PLL9Om1wmhUbKb9z4sKX1VE7QVKT6aJC1M&index=2